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　　Researchers at Australia's University of Newcastle surveyed more than 600 members of close families about their values and attitudes, isolating eight key characteristics from responses.
　　1. Communication. The best type of communication in families is positive, open, honest and, in some cases, laced with humour.
　　" We share a freedom to discuss anything that comes our way,　whether it be a worry or joy. "
　　2. Togetherness. Strong families share an"invisible glue, "giving them a firm sense of belonging.
　　"When someone in our family has a problem, we pull together to find the solution. "
　　3. Sharing activities. Strong families choose to play together.
　　" Over the years we have done skating, camping,walking, swimming, etc. We believe this is helping our children catch the idea of strong family bonds. "
　　4. Affection. Members regularly show each other their care.
　　"Affection is simple stuff,　like a cuddle in the morning, or just a pat on the head... a question about how things are going... and being genuinely interested in the answer. "
　　5. Support. They are comfortable offering or seeking support.
　　"Being a strong family unit means if one of the family has a challenge, there are many family members to listen, advise and support. "
　　6. Acceptance. Members value,　acknowledge and tolerate each other.
　　"We see each other as individuals,and respect and celebrate our differences."
　　7. Commitment. The wellbeing of the family is a high priority.
　　"Commitment is to stand finn regardless of the situation."
　　8. Resilience. Reacting to challenges in a positive way is essential.
　　" We have encountered several trying situations that have had the capability of tearing us apart,but which have in fact bonded us together. "
　　澳大利亚纽卡斯尔大学的研究人员对一些家庭关系密切的600个成员进行了关于价值观念、人生态度的调查，并从中归纳出了8点他们共有的特征：
　　1.加强交流。最理想的家庭交流类型是属于那种积极开放、开诚布公型的，有时也不妨添上点幽默色彩。
　　“生活中发生的任何事我们大家都享有参加讨论的自由，无论是烦恼还是快乐。”
　　2.团结无间。稳固的家庭关系中有一种“无形的凝聚力”，它使每个人都感受到一种强烈的归属感。
　　“家庭中某一成员有了困难，我们大家都会同心协力找出解决的办法。”
　　3.共同参与。稳固的家庭往往选择一同娱乐。
　　“多年来我们都是一起滑冰，一起露营，一起散步，一起游泳等。我们认为这有助于让孩子们体会到家庭中强烈的纽带关系。”
　　4.真诚关爱。家庭成员之间要经常互相表达各自的关切之情。
　　“关怀可以以简单的方式来表达：如清晨的一下拥抱，在头上轻拍一下……，关心一下事情进展得如何……，对于对方的回答表现出发自内心的真诚的兴趣。”
　　5.互相支持。稳固的家庭中给予或寻求支持是一种十分自然的事情。
　　“稳固的家庭意味着，如果一个家庭成员遇到了难题，其他成员都会认真倾听，并给予忠告和支持。”
　　6.承认接受。家庭成员间互相尊重、认可和宽容。
　　“我们将家庭成员中的每一个人视为一个独立的个体，对于我们之间的差别采取尊重和赞赏的态度。”
　　7.责无旁贷。家庭的利益放在第一位。
　　“无论在怎样的情况下，都要坚决履行对家庭的责任。”
　　8.开朗达观。对于困难和挑战持积极态度是最重要的。
　　“我们曾遇见几次重大的考验，使家庭几乎破裂，但事实上反而使我们紧相连了。”
英语知识大连G381中学外语教与学Claire Colvin20032003方陵生The Secrets of Strong Families 作者：英语知识大连G381中学外语教与学Claire Colvin20032003

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